Comments on: Why the hoodrat and hospital nurse are the same! http://216skillz.com/?p=1462 Cleveland, Hip Hop, & Tech for Generation X Wed, 09 Jun 2010 19:55:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: Yvonne http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-90 Yvonne Mon, 26 Oct 2009 19:39:37 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-90 I think Louie is looking for a soul mate. I think he does not want to settle for less than that. When you meet your soul mate, looks, body measurement, etc does not matter. You just want to be with that person. They complete you. It is ok to be honest about what is attractive to you. Some people may think its shallow. Maybe to some degree it is. The bottom line is its the way he feels and he knows what he wants. At the end of the day Louie and his friend want the same thing. True love. I think Louie is looking for a soul mate. I think he does not want to settle for less than that. When you meet your soul mate, looks, body measurement, etc does not matter. You just want to be with that person. They complete you. It is ok to be honest about what is attractive to you. Some people may think its shallow. Maybe to some degree it is. The bottom line is its the way he feels and he knows what he wants.

At the end of the day Louie and his friend want the same thing. True love.

]]> By: viscera http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-103 viscera Sat, 24 Oct 2009 16:23:23 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-103 I like that JIMMIZ, to me a relationship is about giving, not what you receive so it goes hand in hand that who you spend time with should be giving and appreciative as well. My wife has great legs too!! DADDY LIKE. LOL! I like that JIMMIZ, to me a relationship is about giving, not what you receive so it goes hand in hand that who you spend time with should be giving and appreciative as well. My wife has great legs too!! DADDY LIKE. LOL!

]]> By: viscera http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-104 viscera Sat, 24 Oct 2009 16:19:16 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-104 Those questions were allegorical, showing that expectations do result from dating. It's true that some women ask the questions you pose but the fact you added more proves my point. Dating should be done with a view toward moving forward, not as a recreational pastime........<br><br>I would like to add that I don't believe in premarital sex any longer. Sex confuses things for people on both sides and if the"EXPECTATION" of sex were removed from this casual dating we're discussing (or not so casual,admittedly), then we would see very quickly what Lou is in this for. Save things for marriage and you'll have a happier marriage as a result. <br><br>I'll share something w/ you. I'm married and my wife and I didn't have sex before marriage. It was as difficult as you can imagine but we have a deeper respect for each other as a result. Mind you, we have our problems like any other couple. But, they're not sexual. We waited because we are both religious and see the wisdom of waiting and keeping that part of our relationship precious. Now as far as 'Finding' her, I'll admit we don't see eye to eye on quite a bit, to the point where it's been questioned whether we should even be together but, we have a solid foundation to build upon that isn't confused by sex.<br><br>I guess what I'm saying is relationships aren't about finding someone, to me it's about 'making' something worth having. Those questions were allegorical, showing that expectations do result from dating. It's true that some women ask the questions you pose but the fact you added more proves my point. Dating should be done with a view toward moving forward, not as a recreational pastime……..

I would like to add that I don't believe in premarital sex any longer. Sex confuses things for people on both sides and if the”EXPECTATION” of sex were removed from this casual dating we're discussing (or not so casual,admittedly), then we would see very quickly what Lou is in this for. Save things for marriage and you'll have a happier marriage as a result.

I'll share something w/ you. I'm married and my wife and I didn't have sex before marriage. It was as difficult as you can imagine but we have a deeper respect for each other as a result. Mind you, we have our problems like any other couple. But, they're not sexual. We waited because we are both religious and see the wisdom of waiting and keeping that part of our relationship precious. Now as far as 'Finding' her, I'll admit we don't see eye to eye on quite a bit, to the point where it's been questioned whether we should even be together but, we have a solid foundation to build upon that isn't confused by sex.

I guess what I'm saying is relationships aren't about finding someone, to me it's about 'making' something worth having.

]]> By: jimmiz http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-102 jimmiz Sat, 24 Oct 2009 15:59:45 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-102 It's quite simple. Lou needs to take a long moment and think of 5 or 6 qualities in a mate that he can not live without. This surpasses where you come from, who your parent(s) are, where you were raised, because at a certain point in time you have to take reponsibility of your life and educate yourself through awareness.<br>These special qualities....and I dont mean nice car, nice job, great butt etc...All of those things can change. What we need to find are those 5 or 6 qualities in a woman/man that are undisputably the most important things. <br><br>For me 9 years of marriage this week...Trusting wife, kind and caring mother, physically and emotionally attracted to her, and a career and I dont care what the career is as long as it is stimulating to her. Those are my qualities<br><br>The rest of the stuff is just fluff....it would be nice to have but its not necessary. To many relationships are based on the fluff factor. <br> <br>By the way my wife has great legs It's quite simple. Lou needs to take a long moment and think of 5 or 6 qualities in a mate that he can not live without. This surpasses where you come from, who your parent(s) are, where you were raised, because at a certain point in time you have to take reponsibility of your life and educate yourself through awareness.
These special qualities….and I dont mean nice car, nice job, great butt etc…All of those things can change. What we need to find are those 5 or 6 qualities in a woman/man that are undisputably the most important things.

For me 9 years of marriage this week…Trusting wife, kind and caring mother, physically and emotionally attracted to her, and a career and I dont care what the career is as long as it is stimulating to her. Those are my qualities

The rest of the stuff is just fluff….it would be nice to have but its not necessary. To many relationships are based on the fluff factor.

By the way my wife has great legs

]]> By: viscera http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-89 viscera Sat, 24 Oct 2009 09:23:23 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-89 I like that JIMMIZ, to me a relationship is about giving, not what you receive so it goes hand in hand that who you spend time with should be giving and appreciative as well. My wife has great legs too!! DADDY LIKE. LOL! I like that JIMMIZ, to me a relationship is about giving, not what you receive so it goes hand in hand that who you spend time with should be giving and appreciative as well. My wife has great legs too!! DADDY LIKE. LOL!

]]> By: viscera http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-88 viscera Sat, 24 Oct 2009 09:19:16 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-88 Those questions were allegorical, showing that expectations do result from dating. It's true that some women ask the questions you pose but the fact you added more proves my point. Dating should be done with a view toward moving forward, not as a recreational pastime........<br><br>I would like to add that I don't believe in premarital sex any longer. Sex confuses things for people on both sides and if the"EXPECTATION" of sex were removed from this casual dating we're discussing (or not so casual,admittedly), then we would see very quickly what Lou is in this for. Save things for marriage and you'll have a happier marriage as a result. <br><br>I'll share something w/ you. I'm married and my wife and I didn't have sex before marriage. It was as difficult as you can imagine but we have a deeper respect for each other as a result. Mind you, we have our problems like any other couple. But, they're not sexual. We waited because we are both religious and see the wisdom of waiting and keeping that part of our relationship precious. Now as far as 'Finding' her, I'll admit we don't see eye to eye on quite a bit, to the point where it's been questioned whether we should even be together but, we have a solid foundation to build upon that isn't confused by sex.<br><br>I guess what I'm saying is relationships aren't about finding someone, to me it's about 'making' something worth having. Those questions were allegorical, showing that expectations do result from dating. It's true that some women ask the questions you pose but the fact you added more proves my point. Dating should be done with a view toward moving forward, not as a recreational pastime……..

I would like to add that I don't believe in premarital sex any longer. Sex confuses things for people on both sides and if the”EXPECTATION” of sex were removed from this casual dating we're discussing (or not so casual,admittedly), then we would see very quickly what Lou is in this for. Save things for marriage and you'll have a happier marriage as a result.

I'll share something w/ you. I'm married and my wife and I didn't have sex before marriage. It was as difficult as you can imagine but we have a deeper respect for each other as a result. Mind you, we have our problems like any other couple. But, they're not sexual. We waited because we are both religious and see the wisdom of waiting and keeping that part of our relationship precious. Now as far as 'Finding' her, I'll admit we don't see eye to eye on quite a bit, to the point where it's been questioned whether we should even be together but, we have a solid foundation to build upon that isn't confused by sex.

I guess what I'm saying is relationships aren't about finding someone, to me it's about 'making' something worth having.

]]> By: jimmiz http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-87 jimmiz Sat, 24 Oct 2009 08:59:45 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-87 It's quite simple. Lou needs to take a long moment and think of 5 or 6 qualities in a mate that he can not live without. This surpasses where you come from, who your parent(s) are, where you were raised, because at a certain point in time you have to take reponsibility of your life and educate yourself through awareness.<br>These special qualities....and I dont mean nice car, nice job, great butt etc...All of those things can change. What we need to find are those 5 or 6 qualities in a woman/man that are undisputably the most important things. <br><br>For me 9 years of marriage this week...Trusting wife, kind and caring mother, physically and emotionally attracted to her, and a career and I dont care what the career is as long as it is stimulating to her. Those are my qualities<br><br>The rest of the stuff is just fluff....it would be nice to have but its not necessary. To many relationships are based on the fluff factor. <br> <br>By the way my wife has great legs It's quite simple. Lou needs to take a long moment and think of 5 or 6 qualities in a mate that he can not live without. This surpasses where you come from, who your parent(s) are, where you were raised, because at a certain point in time you have to take reponsibility of your life and educate yourself through awareness.
These special qualities….and I dont mean nice car, nice job, great butt etc…All of those things can change. What we need to find are those 5 or 6 qualities in a woman/man that are undisputably the most important things.

For me 9 years of marriage this week…Trusting wife, kind and caring mother, physically and emotionally attracted to her, and a career and I dont care what the career is as long as it is stimulating to her. Those are my qualities

The rest of the stuff is just fluff….it would be nice to have but its not necessary. To many relationships are based on the fluff factor.

By the way my wife has great legs

]]> By: Summer http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-86 Summer Sat, 24 Oct 2009 01:18:10 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-86 Who will i choose, man it should say take your time the right one will come. First off my man, you need to be cool. Love conquers all. The best man will get the lady. Patients has to be the key here. I know a person like this, and it bothers me at times when she puts herself out there like that. Is he being too picky? maybe. I guess we will never know. All i say is keep trying but not so hard, and before you know it, she will come. Just ask me i have dated men, and i thought was right for me, and was ALL WRONG. Then i met the man of my dreams and we plan to marry soon. So you see if you play your cards right God will bless you with someone special, you just have to have patience. Just keeping it real with y'all don't hate. Who will i choose, man it should say take your time the right one will come. First off my man, you need to be cool. Love conquers all. The best man will get the lady. Patients has to be the key here. I know a person like this, and it bothers me at times when she puts herself out there like that. Is he being too picky? maybe. I guess we will never know. All i say is keep trying but not so hard, and before you know it, she will come. Just ask me i have dated men, and i thought was right for me, and was ALL WRONG. Then i met the man of my dreams and we plan to marry soon. So you see if you play your cards right God will bless you with someone special, you just have to have patience. Just keeping it real with y'all don't hate.

]]> By: 216skillz http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-85 216skillz Sat, 24 Oct 2009 00:47:33 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-85 Love u like a brother Love u like a brother

]]> By: happyasiam http://216skillz.com/?p=1462&cpage=1#comment-84 happyasiam Sat, 24 Oct 2009 00:41:04 +0000 http://216skillz.com/?p=1462#comment-84 this is Lou....i appreciate the concern...I happen to feel that God made somebody just for me and one day I am going to meet them....<br>unfortunately it has not happened yet but life is a process and not a period... I am patient.....she will come and I will treat her right <br>and she will do the same for me....I dont believe in putting a round peg in a square hole....it got to be right to really work...and no one but<br>me and that person knows when and what that is... this is Lou….i appreciate the concern…I happen to feel that God made somebody just for me and one day I am going to meet them….
unfortunately it has not happened yet but life is a process and not a period… I am patient…..she will come and I will treat her right
and she will do the same for me….I dont believe in putting a round peg in a square hole….it got to be right to really work…and no one but
me and that person knows when and what that is…

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